I read an article in Entrepreneur magazine this morning, and think it is so important for each of you to read as you think about using this idea with your business strategy!But first…a little more about me…. For many years, I sold my products; my wreaths, my arrangements, my bows and my style. For a very long time, I said nothing about me or my story, adding only just a little here and there as time went on. Yes, I realize now that I do have a compelling story that can reach and encourage so many of you, although it is still about things I don’t like to talk about! But, I do have a very strong desire and determination to go wherever God leads me — to fulfill whatever God’s dreams are for me!
That is where I will be; there is no hesitation because it is where I will be the happiest as I do my best to fulfill my task for which God has put me upon this earth. It was God who led me to realize, that I have a story (however hard it may be to talk about), which can give hope to others as it imparts the knowledge that EACH ONE REALLY CAN fulfill their dreams no matter what obstacles may have been holding them back.
It took me many years to get to the place where I felt comfortable talking about “me”, feeling all along the circumstances were all my fault. “I should try harder, I should do better, my faith isn’t strong enough…”, I told myself over and over and over!
Oh, how I wish I had known then how I was a victim of things I had no control over! I had a beautiful mother I thought didn’t love me — finding out long after her death she was really ill with the same problems which have plagued me.
Feelings of being unworthy as well as unlovable have always been a struggle. In my case, there were so many things, things that made me ashamed that my life wasn’t as productive, joyful and exciting as those around me, as well as those I dealt with on the Internet. I was ashamed of those feelings of inadequacy (my low self-esteem), and the fact that maybe I hadn’t tried hard enough to overcome all the health issues which plagued me for almost 35 years now.
I now know that God DOES want me to tell my story! I know that my story helps so many other women who have suffered illnesses as well as felt the same inadequacies as I did. So, I DO tell about me. All of you know about me! I don’t hold it back any longer…
Do you customers know you? Do they know where you came from? Do they know the story of why and how you are where you are at this very moment in time? And do they know why you are selling on the Internet as you make your beautiful creations every day? In other words… “Do they know, like and trust you?” Well, they should!! Think about what I have said above as you read this very informative article!!
Read this well written article below. I think it will help you succeed in your business. It will help your “online” customers get to know the “real you” as you sell your wares… It truly is VERY IMPORTANT as they learn they can KNOW, LIKE AND TRUST YOU — YOU ARE VERY SPECIAL!
A Quick Guide to Making Your Brand’s Story More Compelling
by, Joanna Lord
In a lot of ways, people don’t buy products anymore — they buy your business’s story. That means companies must constantly refine their stories and present them in innovative ways. A brand story envelops your mission as a company, your culture and your history: How did you get started? Why do you do what you do? Where are you going? Because shoppers are so connected through social networks, marketers should aim to present their stories in such a way that people will want to share them and their friends will want to connect with them. One advantage of social media is that we can have some control of our story. We can either passively hope people find our story appealing — or we can intentionally shape it to try to resonate with prospective customers. Here are a few suggestions on how to convey a more powerful story: Develop your “why.” One of the best things a company can do is be transparent about why it is doing what it does. My favorite model to help brands push past the “what” and “how” of their story and find their “why” is Simon Sinek’s Golden Circle Theory. This theory focuses on “Why do you wake up in the morning?” and “Why are you so passionate about this?” Not quite sure how to go about brainstorming your “why”? Try these suggestions:
- Ask your customers: Put up a blog or Facebook post asking your customers why they stick with you.
- Ask your employees: Your team is the closest to what you are doing and the why behind it, so ask employees why they work for you and what motivates them to come in every day.
- Read your web mentions: Google your company’s name and see how people are talking about you out on the web.
Share your “why” in distinctive ways. Make your story engaging and easy to share. Social media consumes one out of every five minutes spent online, according to a recent study by Reston, Va.-based digital analytics firm comScore. That means your audience is most likely spending a significant amount of time online sharing content. Here are a few ideas for getting customers to share your content:
- Put a video on your site. Rather than just telling your story in text in the About Us section of your website, create a video as well. It could feature employees talking about why they work for you and how they hope the company’s products or services will help customers. Be sure to make it personal.
- Post photos. One of the easiest ways to enhance your story is to add images to your site or social network. If you have a cool office or store, showcase it. Also, post photos of customers and your team to highlight the people behind your brand’s success.
- Add a few quotes. Many sites put up long testimonials from customers, but you should go further. Get quotes from your leadership, customers and business partners that help tell the “why” of your story. Then showcase only the words or sentences that really tell the story and give them a beautiful visual treatment.
Related: How to Be Unforgettable Online Give your “why” more real estate. Is your company’s story tucked away in the footer of your website with an “Our Story” link? If so, it’s time to give your story greater visibility. Ideally, your story should be laced throughout the text on your entire site, but that can be challenging. Instead, start with some of these baby steps toward giving your story more of the spotlight:
- Put it on the home page.Rethink which content should get this prime real estate. What could be better than putting a video up on your home page that describes why your company exists and why you do what you do? Tell people something that encourages them to learn more about you.
- Link to it from social profiles. Companies are investing heavily in social media and teams to manage those conversations. Make your story a critical part of that interaction. Link to videos or website pages that help your followers understand what makes you special.
- Write about it on your company blog. Your blog can be a great place to call out your story. Transparency in business resonates with customers, so talk openly about both your company’s struggles and successes.
Marketers should rethink what exactly they are selling. With so many products out there and so much noise in the social sphere, it’s your story that can really differentiate you. Careful attention to how you tell that story and how you showcase it can make all the difference.
Excellant article
Thank you so much, Elaine! :o)
Wow, so many good tips here! I really admire you for being able to put your story out there. It makes you seem more real, kind of like a neighbour friend instead of a business person who is out just to sell their products. I wish I too had the nerve to get out there and tell my story but as much as I’ve tried it seems as if there is just so much that I can talk about and no more for the pain and emotions start surfacing again feeling afresh. Keep on with your inspirations and don’t let anything discourage you…You Are Worth It and An Encourager To Many!!!
Thank you Linda! It is hard to tell your story many times, but there are so many loving, caring ladies that we deal with everyday that make it easier. And, if they really know YOU, they are more likely to purchase from you (problems and all), that from a complete stranger.
You never know… your problems when voiced out loud may take part of the sting out of them for you while really helping and encouraging someone else.
Praying for you! Nancy
Gosh Nancy,
That was a great informative article, I guess you have to really put yourself out there for that…..not that it isn’t worth it, it’s just so hard to do….My own story is so similar to yours, and I have the talent to succeed, just not the know-how. I guess this is where you start….Thank you!…
Keep doing what you’re doing, it is reaching a lot of people….especially me….
God Bless!
Thanks for your comment, Susie. I have learned that I do have to put myself out there, not only for me, but for you. Susie, if you have the talent to succeed, then you will. The know-how can be taken care of when you are in a group like this or when you hire a coach. You have talent, and a love for what you do, so you CAN succeed!
You’re very welcome, Susie!
God Bless, Nancy
Thank you for your confidence in me.
Be Blessed!
Oh, Susie… You’re VERY Welcome! I do have confidence in you… but most of all, I want you to experience having confidence in yourself! Blessings… Nancy
I already feal like one of your family. Thank you ever so much for sharing your story. I am a new member and am so hopeful for my new venture in the floral world. Thank you again Nancy
Awww… I am so happy Susan! I am excited for you and your new venture also! Always remember… I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT!
Smiles… Nancy
Thank you Nancy for sharing your story. I can relate how you felt all those years thinking your Mother didn’t love you and not knowing why. I too struggled with self-esteen and confidence issues because I thought I was not loved. Although we can’t go back in time and try to understand what a family member was going through, I found in my older and “wiser” years now how much I’ve grown spiritually and emotionally due to those insecure years. I’m sure your mother and mine are looking down on us and are so happy that we didn’t give up on ourselves, and are now living our dreams each and every day. Through your Best of Nancy membership I found the courage to jump back into life and follow my dreams! And how important it is that we do so. Everyday is Blessed. Thank you Nancy, your giving nature and faith help us to keep going!
You are very welcome! What a touching story — one that fills my heart. No, we cannot go back, but you are so right about growing spiritually and emotionally. It is wonderful knowing that they may be looking down on us smiling right now. I am now living my dream (one day at a time), and it sounds like you are living your dream too! Congratulations!
We are blessed to have you in Best of Nancy. WOW, to know that we have helped you jump back into life and follow your dreams brings tears to my eyes. Everyday is certainly blessed.
Although for many years, I never had a clue what my purpose was, and why He saw fit to lead me through many trials, God is now showing me every single day through each one of you why I am on this earth, and why His path has been was it is for me! Thank you! Nancy
thanks nancy for all your information. i want to get your secret list, so i can start to sell my things. I have to save first to get it. I don’t get much money a month but I will get started soon. I think you are great and I learn alot from you. Got three video. I maked six wreaths for family. Thanks again,
Wendy
You are very welcome Wendy. Wouldn’t it be nice if you can start selling your wreaths? Have you tried it yet? If you have already made 6 wreaths, you are well on your way! Smiles… Nancy